He has asked me to give him extra days for this or that because that’s when the girls are there, or can I put them in a different extra curricular to the ones they like because the girls are doing something in another place and it would be easier for him.
This time, he and his wife are planning a two week vacation. He wants me to give up a week with our boys because “the girls can be there for two weeks and he wants a family vacation”. My boys are not close to their stepsisters. This has come up because my ex and his wife have talked to my boys about not claiming sisters when they write about “siblings” on school stuff.
And then when my oldest got a week pass for the trampoline park, he used it while he was with me for him, his brother and a couple of their friends. While ex had asked why he didn’t save it to use with the girls as well. He was annoyed that my ex made such a big deal out of it.
I said no to the whole vacation thing anyway and ex brought up the girls again. I told him the girls schedule with them is not important to me and he needs to stop trying to make it a problem for me. I told him he was not getting an extra week with the boys and he needed to accept it.
AITA?
I don’t seem to have it clear enough. Ex is asking me to fully give up a week of parenting time with my children. He is not offering to make it up. And has been disagreeable to swapping in the past when asking for extra time.
