My dad has always had primary custody and I (16f) stayed with my bio mom on weekends. When I was 4 I was supposed to stay with her once for a week when my dad and stepmom went on their honeymoon.
My dad is white with blonde hair and green eyes. My bio mom is Latina with darker skin and hair. I am a carbon copy of my dad except I have my bio mom’s curly hair. My bio mom always hated that I looked like my dad so on the first day she and another lady dyed my hair dark brown and made me get a spray tan. I used to be allergic to a lot of stuff so I broke out in hives after the spray tan and instead of calling my dad or a doctor, she gave me Benadryl every few hours until my grandparents showed up and took me (my dad sent them because my bio mom wasn’t answering his calls).
My dad went to court after that but she still had me on weekends.
Fast forward to when I was 9 my bio mom starts bringing her boyfriend and his kids to her house when I was there. His kids were 6 and 2 and I was expected to share everything with them. There was this stuffed animal and blanket that my grandma made me when I was 8 and she died a few months later so I was really attached to the bunny and blanket and used to take them to her house. Her boyfriends 2 year old wanted them so she made me give them to her. My dad was able to get them back though. After that she told me I wasn’t allowed to come over if I couldn’t share and play nicely with my “new sisters” so I stopped bringing clothes and toys that I liked so it wouldn’t hurt when her boyfriends kids wanted them.