Well now the issue, to access to the gym you need to put your finger so it can scan your fingerprint and then your picture and info shows on the screen of the reception, last week I got a message from an unknown number asking how I was, etc, when I asked who it was it said it was this guy and that he hoped I wouldnt get upset he took my number from the info, I said I was upset and I am married, he said he saw the ring but wasnt sure so wanted to ask, hmm ok?, I said that I am i fact married and that is why I use a wedding ring and he said ok and stopped texting.
Since I didnt want to walk straight to the manager because he would know it was me and what I was doing I decided to send an email to the gym explaining everything and how I felt my privacy was violated, my husband agreed completely, they sent an email back apologizing and saying they would handle it, the next day I walked to the gym and he wasnt there, I assumed he was fired since the next days he wasnt there either.
We had my BIL and wife and other family members around and we were talking about it and BIL said how shitty that was and I couldnt mess with someone’s job like that, the guy apologized and stopped so why did I kept going, some of them agreed with him and other said he was the one messing with his job, not me but now I feel kinda bad I mean he did stop when I said I was married. AITA?
