Life would be much less complicated if we could have a cheat sheet for difficult situations.
But life is not a test, and we cannot cheat. So we will let you in on some secrets when it comes to love. If you want to be in a long and harmonious relationship, there are specific rules you have to follow.
These are the 4 most important rules :
4. YOU CAN NOT FORCE SOMEONE TO BE IN LOVE WITH YOU
People are not obligated to love you back. How could you love someone crazy in love with you if you simply don’t even like them?
We have to respect what others feel. Work on yourself and become a better version of yourself. That’s when the person you are trying to win over can decide what they feel for you.
3. IF YOU ARE LOVED, YOU WILL KNOW IT
You can feel or notice if someone likes you or not.
A sure sign that someone feels something for you is when they treat you differently, respect you and care about your feelings.
2. LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
Loving yourself is not selfish: it means respecting your wishes and feelings. It means you will stay true to yourself and won’t give yourself to someone indifferent to you.
Loving yourself means sticking to your ground. If you know you love yourself, you will treat others with respect, and you won’t ever make your partner do something he is not okay with.
1. DON’T BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T LOVES YOU
This is one of the most common mistakes. It sounds cruel, but no one is obliged to love you forever, even if you have three children together or have built them a palace.
If the love is gone, what’s better: moving on or staying in a loveless marriage/relationship? Of course, we hope you don’t choose the second option.