Love has no boundaries, no shape, or no conditions. If only we could understand this, we wouldn’t have to put on a chick-flick, grab a big ass spoon, and eat frozen ice cream while crying and indulging in self-pity.
What kills us the most is being stuck on someone? It is also known as being co-dependent, believing we cannot live without the other person. Sometimes we love someone so much that we lose ourselves completely.
Once we love unconditionally, the pain of letting go can almost kill us. Loving someone unconditionally means accepting them for everything they are. We try to change them; because we are convinced we know the best. This is the beginning of a toxic relationship.
It is not easy having true love without it turning into a weak dependence. However, we may help with that – here are the three best secrets of how to live the fairytale forever:
4. ASK YOURSELF: “How did it feel the first couple of days?”
It is a warning sign if you cannot remember the sweet beginning. The first time we love someone, we feel free and happy. Our senses become heightened, we have a new appreciation for life, and everything is just how it is supposed to be.
What is important: the feeling you had then. Remember what kind of person you became when you fell in love. Be grateful for the appreciation of life the love has brought to you.